One of the reasons why you stay so stuck is because of the extreme emotional rollercoaster that you are on. When he treats you badly it’s easy to say you are leaving. The problem is that he is so remorseful, promises you the world, and does amazing things for you that you find it hard…
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Why Does He Choose My Friends
If you are confused by a narcissist’s behaviour it’s because you don’t yet understand that it’s all about control. He cannot allow you to have a support system so that you become completely reliant on him and therefore will be less able to leave. Watch my video below to find out how their mind operates and…
In Yet Another Toxic Relationship
If you have been in a narcissistic relationship and managed to get out that is one thing, but if you find you are in yet another one, then you will notice that there is a pattern. And the pattern is not with them, it’s with you. Why are you attracting these kinds of people? The good thing…
How Do You Be Yourself Again?
Someone I spoke to said she is struggling to be herself again. She has lost her joy, her spark, her innocence. She has become robotic and lifeless. If you have been in a toxic relationship you will have experienced the same. The narcissist will rob you of your happiness, your spark, and you will feel drained. You…
How Do You Co-Parent With a Narcissist?
If you have children with a narcissist you will have an extremely difficult time with them. It’s not possible to come to any agreement, when you ask for something they raise the ante, and they continually will try to either alienate you from your child, or they will want no part in parenting the child. If…
My Relationship Is Depleting Me
Are you in a situation where everyone else is benefitting from you, but you are being drained? Where it feels like you are doing all the work, trying to keep things together, make everyone happy and all that is happening is that you are being more and more depleted. This is a dynamic that most empaths…
How to Have a New Relationship When You Have Past Baggage
Someone asked me how she can leave her past baggage behind because it’s affecting her new relationship. On top of that, her current partner also has baggage. I will share with you how you can enter a new relationship and not let the past affect it so much. Especially when it comes to issues of trust….
How To Leave Your Past Behind You So You Can Move On
Leaving a narcissist can be one of the most difficult things you will ever do. But often you get so focused on leaving that you don’t realize you are still carrying the pain with you. The trauma you have suffered still needs to get healed. It also means that you bring your past trauma into your…
I Can’t Afford To Leave My Abusive Relationship
It’s a difficult situation when you are in a controlling and abusive relationship. A lot of the time the person controls you financially by either not allowing you to work, or managing your finances. I’ve heard too many tragic stories of women who are staying in these toxic relationships because they have nowhere to go and…
Why Can’t I Leave This Toxic Relationship?
WHY CAN’T I LEAVE THIS TOXIC RELATIONSHIP? This is a question I hear from a lot of people. Why is it so hard? Even you consciously you know that the relationship is harming you, there is something holding you back. You might have heard of trauma bonding, where the chemical response in your brain is so strong…