Whenever a person causes you pain in your life, they are projecting a part of you that you have denied. When you own that negative trait you collapse the duality and you stop attracting that into your life.
Narcissists have denied all empathic traits, while empaths have denied all narcissistic traits. Instead of wanting the narcissist to become more empathic, you need to own your narcissistic traits and you will become whole and healthy.
You will learn in this video how it works.
If you would like to know how to own your narcissistic traits, without becoming a narcissist (which you will never do), click the link below to find out how.